What does love have to do with it?  Well, in order to answer the question, you must first understand what love is.  Love has only one Condition, to love unconditionally!  Pure love takes on acknowledgement; do you recognize the essence the true love? Better yet, is it being extracted by your walk as you confess to be lovely?  Love should be your name, you should embody it.  John 15:13 reads: “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends”. Are you willing to die for the ones you love?  Are you really a true friend?  The love of a true friend is exemplified through self-abnegation and self- sacrifice.  So what secretes from you being.  Are you a man, or a shadow of a being?